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Interview: Dolls of Domarby

Back in the days I came up with an idea to interview some other like-minded people to gather thoughts and feelings about subjects like alternative fashion, fetishism, kinky or other relating subjects. I think this can widen up the picture about fetishism and perhaps tell some other stories about fetishism than just my own. After all we all are individuals and it is good to hear others with their own experiences and feelings about their fetishes or other interests. My focus is to question more about backgrounds, thoughts and experiences than entertaining sides of fetishism. This time my interviewee is  Ilmari  from Finland who runs the channel named  Dolls of Domarby  in Instagram. Here are some information and thoughts from him: Please tell a bit about yourself (for example nickname, age, country and town, employment, relationships, hobbies, interests, pets or similar...) Most people call me by my first name Ilmari. Some friends from my youth call me by nicknam...

News and media stigmatize kinky people too often - Where are the appropriate and understanding views?

This blog article deals mostly with finnish culture and situation of finnish media and reporting regarding kinky subjects. But even if we talk about Finland only or the whole world I find reporting about kinky subjects mostly same. They are juicy topics for laughing or horror. But we lack appropriate reporting about kinky people, fetishism and BDSM. Let's start with cold facts While media mostly report kinky things in a negative way or related to negative contexts the readers of papers, followers of media and all of the "vanilla" citizens create their images regarding all the people who are related to any kinky things. There is a risk that all kinky individuals are kept similar and mostly in a negative way. I can't accept that. This is why I try to do my part by telling things from my point of view. From my point of view "kinky" as a subject is still kept too much as a taboo. While it is a taboo it is a delicious subject for only those who desire s...

Movies: Dogs Don't Wear Pants (Finland, 2019)

Dogs Don't Wear Pants (Koirat eivät käytä housuja) is a finnish movie telling a story that involv es BDSM-culture and how it c an be important to some people. It was completed during 2019 and its premiere was 1.11.2019. It's directed by J -P Valkeapää and starred by finnish t op actors Krista Kosonen and Pekka Strang. When I hear d about this movie f or first time I was really surprised but also very happy. As there ar en't very much serious , warm and understanding movies concerning kinky side this movie could have come in need. My expectation of the movie was high as I really hoped it would bring enlightenment to people about the importance an d good sides of fetishes and BDSM. I went to see the movie right after its premiere on 2.11.2019. Finnish version of the movie poster of Dogs Don't Wear Pants. The storyline is following. Juha is the main character of the movie. He ha s lost his wife in an accident and has suffered himself from almost drowning. His...