Senshi's Shelter

I have noticed during past years that in the fetish related events and pictures are often involved some kind of symbols which usually are related to some kind of ideologies. Mostly these ideologies are kept as vice, minor, liberal or even evil. I question why these symbols are quite often and openly related and shown within the fetish context. Because fetishism itself isn't an ideology. It's a feature of an individual. And individuals have their own ideologies. Example one : I was taking part on a fetish event in Finland few years ago where one organizing part decided to use Nazi-related decorations around the place. It could have been just a minor thing if this symbolism would have been carried around by some individuals. But when the organizing part used these symbols and decos around widely it didn't seem to be just about decorating a fetish event. It created an atmosphere where the symbol and ideology were declared by the organizer. It made a pressurizing feeling th...

This is a challenge to all actors who are dealing with fetish fashion world. It is short and sweet: Open your doors to diversity! Some of you have already done that and it is wonderful. But there could be much more to do to improve equality in the fetish world. Mostly the fetish fashion world is still presented with slim and white-skinned sexy young women. They may be the daydreams of the many but this style of marketing drives unequality and unrealistic picture of the fetishism. Fetishism isn't the thing just for one type of people. And modeling isn't a privilege for just one type of people. This is why I dare all the fetish world agents with power to influence others to try bravely something new. This is not about discriminating young female models. We are all human beings and they are along in my challenge. My wish is to drive diversity - not to create more discrimination. So this isn't about ditching others to favor others. It is about favoring everyone. A...

I have a strong opinion that kinky is a caste of sexual minority. Whether kinky should be added among other sexual minorities or not will be always a sensitive subject. There are many perspectives how kinky is not the same thing as being a person from under the rainbow. First of all many people say that being kinky is about having sex in a certain way. It's commonly not considered among sexual minorities because traditional sexual minorities are about loving other people who are not of opposite gender. So in the rainbow case it's about loving other human being in not the traditional man-woman -way. Kinky people are often heterosexuals with different type of kinks so it's commonly considered as normal sexual realtionship with some spices in a bedroom. Kinky people may not be an option under rainbow-colored sexual minorities. Despite that being kinky is being in a sexual minority. But this mental image is something I want to shoot down. Yes, I agree that in the most ...

Most of us don't care about something until it concerns our own life. Most of us don't even want to try and understand diversity until we crave for understanding and approval ourselves. So what would you do if you would find out that you are a fetishist yourself? How about if your child shows signs that he / she would react to something like a fetishist? What would you do if your child would be unsure about him- / herself and wouldn't know what to do?   I intentionally say your child "may be" a fetishist, not "may become". Fetish doesn't always just come from somewhere or be a nice idea. It may be that someone grows up with a fetish that turns out sooner or later. Very often the one with a possible fetish doesn't know about his / her fetish even him- / herself. The fetish side may be indirect or sleeping side that the one doesn't recognize in a long time. Maybe it starts to awaken with random triggers in everyday life. Maybe it comes cl...

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