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Conservative masculinity vs liberal femininity - Can a man really have a choice?

 I have been thinking through one of the most difficult questions regarding men in a modern world. This question is about commonly accepted features of men and the situation of those men who doesn't go with those features. I'm talking about conservative masculinity versus liberal femininity. We haven't got far from the life where men had to be tough by all means. They had to do the hard work. They had to carry their burden and maybe even their families burdens too. They had to defend their land and rights. They had to hunt. They had to be powerful. But times have changed. We live in a liberal democratic western culture where the principle is that every individual should be allowed to be themselves, express themselves as they wish and have a right to make decision regarding their gender and other things regarding their identity. We have gone far towards the better and happier world. But there is still much to do. One really important thing is to cherish the decided goals...

Kinky theme is lacking proper enlightenment

I really miss a proper enlightenment about kinky theme. Kinky things have popped out here and there and they have often reached interest and attention. But the way those kinky things have been brought to light have been poor. There are almost always only two ways how kinky things are dealt with: They are a laughing stock or horrible things. The reason for this is quite simple: The lack of appropriate approach aiming to common knowledge about kinky subjects. You can once again compare kinky people situation to HLBTIQ-people. For example homosexuals were commonly underground about 60 years ago. Homosexuals were kept sick and the subject was a taboo. In the long run homosexualism has become very much accepted around western countries. What has lead to this? I guess it's about the hard work of course but I also guess that rainbow movement have been giving a proper enlightenment about their subjects and matters. They have given an angle about their situation and told that their sexual...

What is a fetish?

Now that we have this new blog here let us start with some basic questions. Many readers who find their way here might already know the basics about fetishism or kinky things. Still my aim is also to introduce the subject to those who doesn't know much about it. So here we go and start from the beginning. There are many sources already where you can find some basic information related to kinky things. Nowadays you have the internet so almost all the information is just few clicks away from you. There still might be some problems finding down-the-earth styled sites those could tell you about fetishism in appropriate way and in positive light. Other option is to buy a book that describes fetishism or kinkiness. These books can be rare but you can find them from some online book stores. I recommend that you check the description of the book in advance or try to find a book review before you buy one. Some of the books are quite nice but some of them might be just half-humorous or...