Senshi's Shelter

Being a fetishist and living under the same roof with others may be a major problem. As the fetishist craves the time to deal with fetishes constan tly it m ay not be po ssible very often. If the fetish is something really personal and sexual it is most likely that fetishist can't practice the lifestyle when t here are other inhabitants present. The fetish may not always be a big secret but it could be embarrassing, immoral or illegal to deal with it if someone else could see it. For exa mple all the fetishists may not want to share their fetishes with anyone else. They might consider them as really personal things and they could require some of their own time alone. Some fetishists wish to share the fetish with their loved ones. It will be great if their loved one s share the interests but it's no t always possible. In this case it might be that the fetishist just can 't share the fetish with other and could need some time alone or other ways to deal with the fetish. ...

Kinky subjects can be sensitive themes between people who don't share the interest or understanding about kinky things in a same way. It's quite common that a couple have different ideas about intimacy, good sex, fantasies or even about good ways to spend spare time at home together. The art of the relationship is that how does the couple combine their interests and dreams together so they can live together and pursue the things they wish. Sometimes relationship might demand someone to drop a thing or two because the other doesn't want same things or even can't live pleasantly if forced to deal with them. On the other hand some things can be a shared subject of interest which can give the relationship a strong bond and might be not only a pleasant thing but even a source of power and happiness. These things are vital for the relationship as they are the glue between the couple. If there are things that share couples opinions they have to be solved. Sometimes these t...

Most of us don't care about something until it concerns our own life. Most of us don't even want to try and understand diversity until we crave for understanding and approval ourselves. So what would you do if you would find out that you are a fetishist yourself? How about if your child shows signs that he / she would react to something like a fetishist? What would you do if your child would be unsure about him- / herself and wouldn't know what to do?   I intentionally say your child "may be" a fetishist, not "may become". Fetish doesn't always just come from somewhere or be a nice idea. It may be that someone grows up with a fetish that turns out sooner or later. Very often the one with a possible fetish doesn't know about his / her fetish even him- / herself. The fetish side may be indirect or sleeping side that the one doesn't recognize in a long time. Maybe it starts to awaken with random triggers in everyday life. Maybe it comes cl...