Senshi's Shelter

I have a strong opinion that kinky is a caste of sexual minority. Whether kinky should be added among other sexual minorities or not will be always a sensitive subject. There are many perspectives how kinky is not the same thing as being a person from under the rainbow. First of all many people say that being kinky is about having sex in a certain way. It's commonly not considered among sexual minorities because traditional sexual minorities are about loving other people who are not of opposite gender. So in the rainbow case it's about loving other human being in not the traditional man-woman -way. Kinky people are often heterosexuals with different type of kinks so it's commonly considered as normal sexual realtionship with some spices in a bedroom. Kinky people may not be an option under rainbow-colored sexual minorities. Despite that being kinky is being in a sexual minority. But this mental image is something I want to shoot down. Yes, I agree that in the most

Being a fetishist and living under the same roof with others may be a major problem. As the fetishist craves the time to deal with fetishes constan tly it m ay not be po ssible very often. If the fetish is something really personal and sexual it is most likely that fetishist can't practice the lifestyle when t here are other inhabitants present. The fetish may not always be a big secret but it could be embarrassing, immoral or illegal to deal with it if someone else could see it. For exa mple all the fetishists may not want to share their fetishes with anyone else. They might consider them as really personal things and they could require some of their own time alone. Some fetishists wish to share the fetish with their loved ones. It will be great if their loved one s share the interests but it's no t always possible. In this case it might be that the fetishist just can 't share the fetish with other and could need some time alone or other ways to deal with the fetish.

When I look at the fetish scene I always end up asking myself these quest ions: Are only men true fetishists who crave fetishes and need to deal with them constantly? And are girls only allowed to have a status of worshipped fetish mo del? I ask these because wh en people browse the magic world of Internet or take part to fetish occasions they always see the similar thing: Women dressed in latex having fantastic life in the spotlights and men at the crowd following them. I have giv en this a thought so often that I decided to chew over it a bit. Popular fetish models are always women. Is it a mandatory? First of all I believe that fetishism isn 't a fe ature concerning only men. Of course there are women who are also interested about fetishes. But the thing I can't com pare is that how deep is the feeling and the crave for fetishes between men or women. I believe that men need fetishes more. Usually men think sex more often t han women which can conne ct to need