Being a fetishist and living under the same roof with others may be a major problem. As the fetishist craves the time to deal with fetishes constantly it may not be possible very often. If the fetish is something really personal and sexual it is most likely that fetishist can't practice the lifestyle when there are other inhabitants present.
The fetish may not always be a big secret but it could be embarrassing, immoral or illegal to deal with it if someone else could see it. For example all the fetishists may not want to share their fetishes with anyone else. They might consider them as really personal things and they could require some of their own time alone.
Some fetishists wish to share the fetish with their loved ones. It will be great if their loved ones share the interests but it's not always possible. In this case it might be that the fetishist just can't share the fetish with other and could need some time alone or other ways to deal with the fetish.
If there are children in the house they make things very complicated. Personal space of adults is almost gone until children can go visit grandparents or other relatives. Sometimes it's possible to limit children from accessing certain parts of the apartment which could make some personal space for the adults only. It can be challenging as children may be interested about these rooms and adults constantly know that they are not alone.
It might be that even pets can disturb fetishist dealing with fetishes. Especially pets that require attention like dogs and cats may not leave people alone if they want company.
After these thoughts I want to give an advice to people who think about similar scenarios and to people who wish to understand the needs of a fetishist. Living in the same apartment with fetishist may require some extra arragements. The needs of the fetishist should be respected even if they could be hard to understand. Fetishes can be really important way to express fetishists own personality. Fetishist can achieve great feelings, enjoyment and relaxing by practicing fetishes.
If the needs of the fetishist are suffocated it can lead to very negative feelings for one. Never disregard these subjects as they can be very important to the other.
There should be open and confidential conversations about the subject between inhabitants. I encourage to plan the arragements to serve all the inhabitants so the whole family can be happy and have their needs met. Without forgetting the acceptance of each others. Happy individuals make together a happy group.
The fetish may not always be a big secret but it could be embarrassing, immoral or illegal to deal with it if someone else could see it. For example all the fetishists may not want to share their fetishes with anyone else. They might consider them as really personal things and they could require some of their own time alone.
Some fetishists wish to share the fetish with their loved ones. It will be great if their loved ones share the interests but it's not always possible. In this case it might be that the fetishist just can't share the fetish with other and could need some time alone or other ways to deal with the fetish.
If there are children in the house they make things very complicated. Personal space of adults is almost gone until children can go visit grandparents or other relatives. Sometimes it's possible to limit children from accessing certain parts of the apartment which could make some personal space for the adults only. It can be challenging as children may be interested about these rooms and adults constantly know that they are not alone.
It might be that even pets can disturb fetishist dealing with fetishes. Especially pets that require attention like dogs and cats may not leave people alone if they want company.
After these thoughts I want to give an advice to people who think about similar scenarios and to people who wish to understand the needs of a fetishist. Living in the same apartment with fetishist may require some extra arragements. The needs of the fetishist should be respected even if they could be hard to understand. Fetishes can be really important way to express fetishists own personality. Fetishist can achieve great feelings, enjoyment and relaxing by practicing fetishes.
If the needs of the fetishist are suffocated it can lead to very negative feelings for one. Never disregard these subjects as they can be very important to the other.
There should be open and confidential conversations about the subject between inhabitants. I encourage to plan the arragements to serve all the inhabitants so the whole family can be happy and have their needs met. Without forgetting the acceptance of each others. Happy individuals make together a happy group.
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