Fetish clothing belongs to everyone

Most of the people who wish to wear fetish clothes are ordinary human beings. They are people who love the look and feeling of the clothing or who have a fetish need for them. They are of different gender, different size, different age and so on. There is no such regulation that the one wearing fetish clothing should be of certain type of individual. Unfortunately some people judge and criticize those who don't look like a supermodel while wearing something that attracts attention.

When talking about a fetish it's totally unimportant what kind of body the fetishist have. It doesn't affect on that fact the person is still a fetishist and needs that important thing close to him or her. The fetish might be nice to look from the mirror but more common is that the fetish is just present for the fetishist. And even if the fetishist would like to see the fetish dressed on in the mirror reflection it's still a beautiful sight despite of body type. The fetish completes the person in need. It gives a good, secure, sexy, superior, enjoyable feeling. Then the look of the body is totally secondary thing for the fetishist. As we should understand this important need we should keep ourselves from judging something that is so important to someone other.

If you judge someone wearing tight, sexy, revealing or otherwise special clothes and the persons body isn't so athletic or skinny it would be same as you would judge someone as worse human being just because his or her body isn't the kind you keep as perfect looking model figure. The thing is that ordinary people never look like some supermodel. And they never should. We live in a world that have focused too much on the look and appearance of all the people. In this case all the people should look like supermodels. Everyone should have a mega-skinny body wihtout any natural marks and everyone should look epic-sexy comparing to given standards of beauty. And this is sickness.

Most of the fetish clothing models and role-models are skinny and sexy women. They are the main models going in circles between every business and events showing off fetish clothes and lifestyle. But they are just models. They do it as a job. And because slim body and certain looks sells they are usually slim with certain looks. It's business. It's not a normal life. So the picture of the lifestyle they've given is distorted.

So why I'm going this through? Because most of the people can't see the real life. In the real life there are ordinary people with their ordinary lifes and things. In real life people look ordinary. They have ordinary bodies with ordinary faces and body types. There are ordinary thin and plump ones. There are ordinary breasts or muscles. The picture that the models or porn give is fantasy. There are picked selection of certain types of people who have a body that our conservative standards of beauty say is hot. The real life isn't fantasy. Even the "perfect" looking people have some kind of natural features which we nowadays keep as "defects". And they are not showing them because the goal is to look perfect, not real.

In a nutshell: Fetishists are not supermodels. They are ordinary human beings. They are thin, average or plump. They are of different gender and they might crossdress. As the fetishism and fetish clothing are still some kind of taboo among the ordinary people the only common picture given of fetishism comes from fetish models and porn. And these have quite a little to do with the normal life.

So in the end I say that fetish clothing belongs to everyone. Despite of body structure, gender or other features everyone is allowed to wear fetish clothing if they like it or need it. I can't see any reason why people should judge someone who could be happy with something that doesn't hurt anyone or do any harm. If someone doesn't like plump people, well, congratulations. Get out to the real world and see the truth. Everyone isn't, and shoudn't be, a "supermodel" whose picture of beauty is given to us by commercials and marketing. Real beauty and happiness are totally other things.