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Hints and tips for dating fetishists and kinky people

It has been a long time since I got one comment concerning my blog. I got a suggestion I should write something about dating. It is really challenging subject. Back in time I found it hard to find dates who could have been interested about fetishes or with whom could be discussed about fetishism properly. And if one could be found it was always hard to match other subjects like everyday life, family expections and seriousness of relationship. It could have been easy to find company but fetishism was always quite a taboo. I'd love to see that fetishism could be discussed properly without needs of shame or hiding. And so my first advice is: Tell about your fetishism in early stage of your possible relationship. Later it will become harder and if the subject is critical it can destroy the relationship that has otherwise been really great. But lets dig deeper into dating. Here are my thoughts. Some options for dating: - FetLife : FetLife is a "Facebook" made for kinky people....

Interview: Dolls of Domarby

Back in the days I came up with an idea to interview some other like-minded people to gather thoughts and feelings about subjects like alternative fashion, fetishism, kinky or other relating subjects. I think this can widen up the picture about fetishism and perhaps tell some other stories about fetishism than just my own. After all we all are individuals and it is good to hear others with their own experiences and feelings about their fetishes or other interests. My focus is to question more about backgrounds, thoughts and experiences than entertaining sides of fetishism. This time my interviewee is  Ilmari  from Finland who runs the channel named  Dolls of Domarby  in Instagram. Here are some information and thoughts from him: Please tell a bit about yourself (for example nickname, age, country and town, employment, relationships, hobbies, interests, pets or similar...) Most people call me by my first name Ilmari. Some friends from my youth call me by nicknam...

Being Asuka Langley Soryu in latex costume

I have noticed that most interesting thing in my photos and in my blog has been my Asuka Langley Soryu costume (by Andromeda Latex). Because I have felt that some people would like to see me doing only Asuka cosplay and posing in pictures with the costume I decided to write something about the costume. I also tell why I don't do only Asuka cosplay and why I do it quite rarely. I noticed that there hasn't been very much photos of the suit on my blog after my old review so I decided to put some photos here from the past years. I hope it covers some demand of seeing more about the suit as well as telling a bit more about experiences with it. I have cosplayed Asuka very rarely. It's not that I wouldn't like to do it but there are many reasons which I tell later on this article. General thoughts and some history of my Asuka costume Being Asuka feels fun. Well, I'm not a performer or actor so "being" sounds a bit too much. Let's just say that I love the look...

American horror stories create negative prejudices against fetishism

Please note that the serie dealt in this text has   age rating 18  in most countries .  This blog text doesn't involve offensive pictures and it describes the serie only in common way. So this blog text is ok to read and shouldn't be offensive. Some time ago I bumped into internet article which told about some actress and her situation. It was almost just an article among others but one photo on it caught my attention. In that photo I saw some poster on the background in which was something black and shiny. I instantly identified it as an outfit of some kind. I got very interested what poster it was and what was it promoting. The search was really hard and almost frustrating as that actress didn't have a connection to that subject. After a long search I found results. The poster is promoting a serie called "American Horror Stories". Once I found this out I was really disappointed. I already knew what was coming on. I have worn latex outfits for about 15 years now....